Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Home for Christmas

Here are the pictures from my fun trip to San Jose for Christmas. Well, mostly it's a chronicle of Brandy's trip since I was behind the camera.


It was a long, tiring road trip....

Brandy and tree.
Brandy and Rusty, a Christmas portrait.
Our Christmas cookies, courtesy of Karla, Amy, and Tara (I baked a couple, too, but theirs were better!)
A couple shots of Grandma with Brandy.

Brandy with my brother, Jeff.
As I'm sure you can tell, Brandy enjoyed her trip very much and is hoping to go back to San Jose next year for Christmas!

Monday, December 29, 2008

Pink Rocks!

For Christmas, Jared was kind enough to buy me 4 of the CDs I've been coveting (thank you baby!) My favorite, by far, is Pink's new album, Funhouse. Pink went through a divorce this year, which, although sad, made for a lot of amazing song material. The raw emotional nature of Funhouse reminds me of Alanis Morisette's Jagged Little Pill, but I think Pink's vocals are stronger than Alanis's ever were. Also, where Jagged Little Pill appealed to the angry twenty-something feminist in me, Funhouse is much more focused on the grief to watching love slip away and finding a way to survive that heartache. So of course, I find a lot of the CD's lyrics personally relatable...

The first single "Rock Star," has been all over the radio lately. It's a very catchy tune and I crank the volume up every time I hear it.

But my favorite song on the CD is this one, called "Crystal Ball."


Monday, December 22, 2008

12 Days of Christmas

I heard this on the radio today - I dare you not to love it!!!!!!

Saturday, December 20, 2008

Today's Horoscope

SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 21). No wonder someone is so crazy about you today. You're spontaneous, joyful and gentle. You're exactly the kind of partner a sensitive Pisces or Cancer has been looking for. Laughter and love are your future.


Oh go on, horoscope...you flatter me so!

Oscar Bait

How many movies can I see during two weeks off from work? I have this thing about trying to see all 5 nominees for the best picture Academy Award each year, and it seems that the very best movies of the year come out in December. Here is my winter break "to-do" list...reviews forthcoming:

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

Knitting Update

In a previous entry, I detailed how my own stubborn stupidity caused me to be about 5 yards short of yarn to finish a baby blanket for my coworker Donna. Since the yarn I needed was no longer in stock at any of my local craft shops, I had to order it online. AND since I couldn't really see the color accurately online, I had to order two different colors. Yes, I realize I could have done any number of things to avoid this chain of events (bought enough yarn in the first place, made a note of what color I was using, etc.). But, everything turned out fine, because one of the yarns was a color match, I finished the blanket, and I gave it to Donna at her baby shower. Here is the completed blankie:
So, I was trying to find a project to use the extra skein of yarn I bought which is TLC Amore in the lovely color "seaglass." I of course went straight to Ravelry where I found this cool pattern called "Frock Camisole":Now, as I confessed to my knitting group on Sunday, I've never made a human sweater. I've been knitting for about 10 years, and I've made lots of blankets, dishcloths, scarves, socks, a market bag, a backpack, and even a teeny-tiny doggie sweater, but never a sweater for a person. Part of the problem is that I hate to seam. Also I'm scared, because a sweater actually needs to fit to some degree, unlike a blanket or a scarf which can come out any old size and still be okay. Gail reminded me that there are sweater patterns out there which require little or no seaming. The "Frock Camisole" pattern is mostly knitted in the round, and assuming I make it that far, I will only need to attach the straps in the back. It also looks pretty loose-fitting in the picture, so I am hoping there's room for error as far as sizing goes. It's a pretty simple pattern and I've already completed about and inch and a half. I will post pictures of my progress soon...

Saturday, December 6, 2008

The Most Wonderful Time

I love this time of year.

I haven't always felt this way. There's been many a December, several in recent memory in fact, where I've felt nothing but stress, heartache, and the desire for the entire holiday season to just. Be. Over.

But my existence is a lot simpler now. I no longer rush around like a maniac trying to make, locate, buy, and ship the exact perfect gift for every friend and family member. Through the circumstances of life I've been compelled to reorganize my priorities and I've learned how to stop and smell the proverbial roses. Or in this case, maybe stop and smell the pine boughs!

As the air turns colder (although, what was it, like 80 degrees in San Diego today??), and the Christmas tunes start playing on the radio, my nesting instincts kick in. I love just puttering around my little apartment, cleaning out closets, clearing out the cobwebs, and considering my goals for the new year. I break out the warm pajamas, bake cookies in the oven to warm up the house, and sip hot chocolate. Following the early sunsets, I turn on the TV and enjoy the holiday classics all over again: Rudolph, the Grinch, Charlie Brown, It's a Wonderful Life... I love them all!

And as 2008 winds down, I find myself reflecting more than ever on the many blessings I am lucky enough to enjoy...
-A secure job in these tricky economic times. And a 3% raise to boot!
-A cozy little home in a beautiful coastal city.
-A sweet dog who is my constant companion and an affectionate, pretty little kitty who, well, is not too much trouble.
-The most professional, caring, fun coworkers ever.
-Amazing friends who surround me with love and laughter.
-My strong, caring family that always welcomes me home.
-And an incredible, loving partner who, beginning around the middle of July, has made every day feel like Christmas.

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Hell ya, I am an American

As I read through today's San Diego Union Tribune, I read a few stories that reminded me how lucky I feel to have been born an American...

Mumbai begins grim recovery
300-plus dead in Nigeria's sectarian riots
Death sentence upheld for woman convicted of adultery in Iran

As a nation, we are facing economic travails, sure. I am not saying that our county is perfect by any means. In the good ole' USA, there is corruption, poverty, and crime. For heaven's sake we have citizens so hell bent on getting the cheapest television set that they will trample a man in order to get it.

But I am so lucky to be wrapped in a warm blanket of security as my fundamental human rights are protected by our collective belief in a just society, our infallible Constitution, and our incredibly well-outfitted national defense. I can live each day with the knowledge that I can say what I want, see who I want, lay claim to my own property, and find fullfillment in a meaningful job. Not many women around the world can claim the same. For all our flaws, I do truly believe our country is the greatest on earth.

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

A Website I Love

Okay, it's time for one of my patented free endorsements again...

I love allrecipes.com. It's been my go-to recipe search site for a couple of years. I no longer rifle through cookbooks when I'm looking for a recipe. Instead I just sit down at my computer, bring up allrecipes, and search for what I need.

Why do I love this site so much, you ask? Well, of course, I will oblige with a bulleted list of reasons...
  • It's asthetically pleasing, streamlined, and easy to use.
  • There are thousands (millions?) of recipes in the searchable database. I can search by name, ingredients, course, rating, preparation time, cooking method....
  • Once I've found the recipes I like, I can add them to my "recipe box," where they will stay forever unless I delete them. I can also modify the recipes and add recipes from other sources. Many people rate recipes and add comments and modification ideas, which are often very helpful.
  • My favorite feature is the "shopping list." For Christmas this year, I've decided to do some baking after a several-year haitus. I chose four cookie recipes and added all four to my shopping list. Allrecipes compiled the ingredients on to one list, so I know exactly how much flour, sugar, etc. to buy. Love it!
I'm sure there are many more features, but as a rather reluctant cook I have not delved into many of these. Check it out and let me know what you think/find out!!

Monday, November 24, 2008

My Wishlists

It seems that there are a lot of movies and music I'm hoping to add to my own personal collections right now. At the risk of revealing how cheesy and lame my personal tastes are, here are my wish lists:

DVDs - just a few movies I could watch over and over, but don't yet own...
Little Miss Sunshine
Aliens
Juno
Sex and the City
Enchanted
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Lost Season 4
The Big Chill
Like Water for Chocolate
The Dark Crystal
Office Space
Finding Neverland
Heathers

Music - I want to get the new CDs by...
The Killers
David Cook
Christina Aguilera (greatest hits)
Guns 'n' Roses
Pink
Leona Lewis

Saturday, November 22, 2008

Photo Mosaic

A clever idea from Sabrina's Blog:

The rules:

Using fd’s Flickr Toys,

a. Type your answer to each of the questions below into Flickr Search.
b. Using only the first page, pick an image.
c. Copy and paste each of the URLs for the images into fd’s mosaic maker).

The Questions:

1. What is your first name?
2. What is your favorite food?
3. What high school did you go to?
4. What is your favorite color?
5. Who is your celebrity crush?
6. Favorite drink?
7. Dream vacation?
8. Favorite dessert?
9. What you want to be when you grow up?
10. What do you love most in life?
11. One Word to describe you.
12. Your flickr name. (I didn't have anything for this one, so I stuck in a picture of Brandy!)

Here is my mosaic...


This was fun to put together, even though it took a little time. I would like to play around more with the Flickr Toys website - it has tons of cool projects to try!

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

More Birthday Pics

Brandy wanted to get in on the birthday celebration. Say cheese...



Out to dinner tonight at Pacifica Del Mar. Devika was dressed up in her pretty sparkle dress, with her finest shoes and her wavy hair. What an honor!!

She was holding the fork but eating the salad with her fingers. Such entertainment!

The whole dinner crew: Karla, me, Devika, Karla's parents - Carmen and Octavio.

If I tell my wish, it won't come true...

Yummy dessert

Today's Horoscope

TODAY'S BIRTHDAY (Nov. 18). Your charms multiply this year. Communication skills sharpen as you head into the new year and you make many graceful requests that are gladly obliged. The interest of one person is all it takes to set a deal in motion. In January you learn what you need to know in order to increase your earnings. Leo and Pisces adore you. Your lucky numbers are: 13, 20, 14, 4 and 18.

Monday, November 17, 2008

Birthday Pics

I'm too tired to write. They say a picture's worth a thousand words, so here are 4,000 words....
Thanks to all my dear friends for coming out and to Meggie for organizing. Love you!!

Sunday, November 16, 2008

Obama on 60 Minutes


A couple of weeks ago, our country elected a new president. I voted for Barrack Obama on November 4 after having voted for Hillary in the California primary. I still have a lot of concerns about how Obama will perform as president. He is handsome, intelligent, dynamic and refreshing - no doubt about it. But he is relatively inexperienced and spent nearly his entire campaign speaking in broad generalities with that calm, soothing voice. I am hopeful, yes, but our country is mired in a pretty ugly economic mess right now and hope alone won't change that.

I am watching 60 Minutes tonight as Obama gives his first interview since his election. As soon as he takes office, our new president plans to:

1. Spearhead a bipartisan economic stimulus package with a specific focus on helping homeowners on the brink of foreclosure.


2. Close Guantanamo and end any continuing torture of political prisoners.

3. Begin reducing the amount of troops in Iraq while beefing up the military in Afghnistan and "stamping out Al Qaeda once and for all."


Obama is currently reading up on Abraham Lincoln for inspiration. He is putting together his new cabinet which will likely include Hillary and, he promises, at least one Republican.

The disconcerting parts of this interview, in my humble opinion:

1. Obama basically said that he will spare no cost in order to turn the country's recession around. I'm no economist, but this seems contradictory to me. Didn't unchecked, willy-nilly government spending get us here in the first place?

2. A couple of times, Obama called interviewer Steve Kroft by the familiar slang "man." As in, "What are you asking me, man?" It sounded very non-presidential and kind of freaked me out a little.

3. Michelle is also very strong and intelligent. She engaged in some good-natured ribbing with her husband throughout the interview, and challenged him on several minor points. There was something uncomfortable about their ineractions, though. Michelle seemed very eager to get attention on her own right and maybe even prove that she has a say in the way things happen. It felt like she was showing off for the camera "look how much control I have over my husband."

Barrack Obama says he'd like to restore the faith of Americans in our government. His words belie a strong sense of idealism, and his tone reflects his likeability and respectability. It's hard not to feel optimistic listening to our new president, when he seems so optimistic himself. Best of luck to you, President-Elect Obama.

My Naughty Doggie

Brandy had a play date this weekend at her best friend Boca's house. When it was time to go home, Boca sent a stuffed toy hedgehog with Brandy, and before I'd completed the 15-minute drive, here is what happened to said hedgehog:

Monday, November 10, 2008

Cooperstown Day 2

Baby, it was cold outside today. This morning, I would guess the temperature was hovering the low 40's. That made it very difficult to get out of bed. We finally stumbled downstairs around 9:00 for another lovely breakfast, then it was off to the Hall for more baseball history.
It's really overwhelming how much stuff is on display - there's no way anyone cold possibly read and absorb all of that information. We took our time wandering around though. I think I most enjoyed the exhibit of old "board game" interpretations of baseball. Jared's favorite part was the hall of famer's busts themselves, especially when he noticed the small badges beneath the many inductees who served in a branch of the armed forces.

Here is the best-looking baseball card I've seen to date...an uncirculated 1915 Cracker Jack card featuring "Future Hall of Famer":We exited the Hall in the midst of a little snow flurry - a pretty scene which certainly made this cold weather worthwhile.

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Cooperstown Day 1

We arrived in Cooperstown last night after a long day of travel... and found out right away that this small town in rural New York shuts down very early. We could not find a single shop, restaurant, or convenience store open at the late, late hour of 8:45 PM. And we could not find our bed and breakfast either! Finally, though, we inquired at a little restaurant that was closing down for the night, and they pointed us in the right direction. Once we got to the Nelson Avenue Pines B&B, we found our lovely attic suite, complete with two bedrooms, a kitchenette, and a terrific view. This morning, we got up around 9 for our proprietor's yummy breakfast. Later, we ventured out in the 40-something degree weather for a visit to Cooperstown proper. We decided to check out the Wax Museum, which was actually pretty cute...


Here is Jared with the "Holy Grail" of baseball cards: a T206 Honus Wagner...
Me, with a wax Madonna from A League of Their Own.
We then spent a couple of hours at the National Baseball Hall of Fame, checking out the inductees plaques, but we'll be back tomorrow for a longer visit followed by a more detailed post...

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Madonna!

Last night I was so privileged to see the infamous Madonna in concert in San Diego. This was the fifth time I've seen the Material Girl live:

1. 1987 in San Jose - The Who's That Girl tour
2. 1990 in Oakland - The Blond Ambition tour
(skipped the Girly Show tour - not exactly my favorite Madge phase)
3. 2001 in Los Angeles - The Drowned World tour
4. 2004 in Inglewood - The Re-Invention tour

(skipped the Confessions tour - didn't want to go to Inglewood again)

5. Last night - the Sticky and Sweet tour in San Diego


11 years of attending Madonna shows, and I'm not tired of it yet! Last night's show was not my favorite, but it was an amazing show, nonetheless. Madonna is beautiful, tireless, and so talented as a performer. She mostly performed songs from her newest album, Hard Candy, but she threw in some old classics too. My favorites were Into the Groove, La Isla Bonita, and Vogue.
My recommendations for Madonna, just in case she reads this...
  • Keep touring. You are awesome. Your 50 years barely show and you looked great on stage.
  • Play more oldies!! Holiday! Like a Virgin! True Blue!
  • Please stop playing guitar. Please. You were not good at it in 2001 and you're really not much better now. Stick to the singing and dancing.
  • Don't play Petco again. A baseball stadium is not a great place for a concert. Due to the angles of the stadium, there were really no great seats, as far as I could tell. A baseball venue is maximized for watching a huge field, while the concert stage takes up maybe one-tenth of that field at most. Our seats, right behind home plate, felt like they were a mile from Madonna.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Cancelled

Apparently, me liking a new show is the kiss of death. Bye, bye The Ex-List...

Friday, October 24, 2008

The Ex-List

Okay, here I go again. I'm hooked on a new television show. Swingtown is gone, probably forever. I tried renting season one of Dexter, but was so grossed out by the first episode that I didn't want to continue watching. Lost and American Idol are both months away, and the current season of Weeds won't be out on DVD until next summer. So, I read about this show The Ex-List in the local paper because it is filmed in Ocean Beach. I thought I'd give it a look if for no other reason than to check out the scenery.

From the first 15 minutes of The Ex-List, I was completely sucked in. Here is what I love about this show...
  • The main character Bella, is a sweet, independent 33 year-old woman searching for the love of her life. I can relate :)
  • The premise is cute - Bella is re-dating ex-boyfriends because an eerily gifted fortune teller predicted that Bella will marry an ex within the year... or she will never marry at all. It sounds dumb, but it really works in the context of a weekly show.
  • The supporting characters are hilarious, especially Bella's engaged younger sister, Daphne, and the fortune teller, Marina.
  • The writing is smart and the plot twists are really funny: a hideous mole, pretending to be a "clingy girlfriend," "Google Your Ex Smackdown," and the funniest so far: waxing mishaps, complete with the use of a merkin (look it up).

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

More on Proposition 8

Oh for heaven's sakes. I was watching 60 Minutes the other night when I saw this ridiculous commercial. Is there any truth in campaigns anymore??


If we are worried about revisionist fairy tales, how about when the little girl brings home Snow White, Part 2, where Snow White and the prince are going through a nasty divorce and she is demanding half of his vast kingdom and he is fighting for equal custody of the seven dwarfs?!

It makes me sad that the organizations sponsoring ads like this think so little of American voters. Do these kinds of stupid scare tactics really work??

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Ask Not What You Can Do For Technology....

I've been saying it for months now, and a new study published by the Pew Internet and American Life Project just confirmed it: modern technology is not driving a wedge between people as many doomsdayers have been predicting. It's bringing people together by opening channels of communication that did not exist a decade ago. Read the Washington Post article or just peruse the "Cliff's Notes" version of anecdotes from my life:

• In a word, Facebook. It's gotten me in touch with high school friends I haven't seen or talked to in 15 years or more. I've had virtual reunions with people I cared deeply about at some point in my past. And it's the only way I ever get to see my 23 year-old brother.

• Meetup.com. Last year, I was really looking for some new ways to branch out in my life. Enter Meetup. I was able to find a knitting group and a book club in the same week without even leaving my house. I've since dropped the book club, but I still attend my knitting group regularly and have met some really great friends there. And several of them are also my Facebook friends!!


• Emailing/IM-ing/Texting. In this busy life, I'm not always able to call a friend or family member. But by emailing, IM-ing, or texting, I am able to keep in touch with many more people than I otherwise would. When I'm sitting at my computer at 5 in the morning, I can fire off an email to a buddy who would have a few choice words to say if I had rung them on the phone!


• Speaking of texting, the Washington Post had this to say:
The ease of being in touch has created a phenomenon that Rainie calls "love taps," in which couples exchange hellos and touch base with a regularity that did not exist 10 years ago.
I love that term "love taps!" I certainly do my share of love-tapping all day long. Receiving a sympathetic text from Jared sometimes seems to be the only thing that gets me through a hard day.

• And of course, no list of kudos for technology would be complete without my giving props to Match.com. I have several friends who've met the loves of their lives through this popular online dating service. I certainly have met a few nice gentlemen myself who I may never have encountered otherwise. And for a shy, reluctant dater like me, Match was the perfect venue for me to showcase myself and meet interesting men. I was able to expand my dating range all the way to Riverside County without, once again, ever leaving my home! If not for modern technology, how could I have ever known there was at least one gorgeous, sweet, intelligent, good-smelling, single guy left in this world!?

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Madonna Divorcing


I love ya, Madge. But if it turns out that you are f***ing that arrogant Yankee, I may have to turn in my fan card. After the November 4 concert, of course. Please . . . say it ain't so!!

CTA and Politics

I am going to have to tread delicately on this one. I would like to begin with a couple disclaimers:
  • I am a member of the California Teachers' Association. Have been for almost 13 years. In fact, I've been an officer in my local union and am currently part of my school district's salary negotiation team.
  • My political inclinations definitely lean to the left and I have been accused of having a bleeding heart once or twice.
  • I am 100% opposed to Proposition 8, which would amend the California constitution to define marriage as a union between a man and a woman. I believe that if two people want to marry they should be allowed to, no matter what their genders. Gays and lesbians have been treated as second-class citizens for long enough.
That said, I was more than a little annoyed to read that the CTA donated $1 million this week to the campaign to defeat Proposition 8. It has always bothered me that the CTA is a financial supporter of so many candidates and causes that are only marginally related to education, but Prop 8 is not directly tied to teaching at all. I can sort of, kind of understand when CTA publicly endorses and donates to campaigns for various positions from city council all the way up to president of the free world. These nominees (almost always Democrats) usually pledge to allocate more funding toward schools when they take office. But it seems to me that individuals should be able to decide when to donate to political campaigns and causes as they see fit, and I'm guessing there are a couple of CTA members out there who are ideologically in favor of Prop 8. Paying your teachers' union dues should not, in my humble opinion, equal supporting a liberal slate of candidates and causes. I may be a lib, but the one thing I love most about our country is that everyone is entitled to his or her own beliefs.

What's most distressing to me is that, in these financially trying times, $1 million dollars could go a long way toward helping students by refurbishing classrooms, purchasing books, funding preschool programs . . . the list goes on and on.

Please comment - play devil's advocate. Is there something I haven't thought of? Some facet of this I'm not seeing? I'd be curious to know what others are feeling about this piece of news . . .

Sunday, October 12, 2008

A Worthy Cause

I will be participating in a walk later this month to benefit the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. My sister-in-law battled lymphoma several years ago. Scientists have made great gains toward curing blood cancers in the past decade, thanks in part to fund-raising efforts of organizations like the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society. Please think about joining me for the "Light the Night" walk and if you'd like to donate, here's my fundraising link:

http://www.active.com/donate/SanDiego/2502_sdjennyhow

If you do decide to participate, you can register under "Team Pitta," which is the team I am on. Thank you!!

Hee hee hee

Saturday, October 11, 2008

V

This may be the best news I've heard all day. Maybe all week!!

Friday, October 10, 2008

Slow Learner

So.
I generally think of myself as a pretty intelligent gal. I have a pretty decent IQ, got good scores on the SAT, graduated with a relatively high GPA... But like so many nerds, I am apparently lacking in common sense.
My current problem is directly related to knitting, a hobby which I enjoy very much.
You see, when I start a new project, big or small, I tend to buy just one skein of the yarn that I will need for the project. Then, when that skein runs out, I go back to Michael's or JoAnne's for another skein, and so forth.
Well, I'm about four rows away from finishing a baby blanket I've been intermittently working on for over a year, and I have run out of yarn. And I can't find it anywhere. Apparently it's discontinued.
What's really bad is that this is not the first time this has happened to me! I've had to abandon 2 or 3 works in progress or rip them out and start over because of a yarn shortage. I should have learned by now to purchase all the yarn I need up front!
Now, I will have to try to find one more skein of the fiber I need online, where shipping will probably cost more than the yarn itself. And since I haven't saved any of the wrappers from the previous skeins, I'm not sure what color I need. The online pictures are not very true, so it could be either "seaglass" or "light thyme." I'm pretty sure it's "light thyme," but I'll probably order one of each just to be safe.
Arghh - one of these days I will learn!!

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

My Cruise - Part 3

Okay, I promise this will be the last Ensenada Cruise posting! As always, spa weekend was a joyful, relaxing time with girlfriends. However, I will not be running out to book my next cruise anytime soon. I'm about to let my cynical side show, because there were a few things that I did not love about cruising...
  • The first thing we had to do when we got on board was stand out in the blazing-hot direct sunlight for 20 minutes for a lifeboat drill. This is annoying. I know it's important for safety, but it's still annoying.
  • I felt very confined. It was weird, and it was a feeling I did not anticipate. It was like being stuck in the hotel the whole time you're on vacation.
  • The was a whole "rah-rah" summer-camp vibe to the experience. There were all kinds of activities to participate in, but they mostly seemed second-rate and cheesy. And the crew of the ship was forever trying to get everyone to scream and cheer about what a great time we were having.
  • From the drinks to the spa treatments, the on-board bonus items were expensive. I nearly doubled my cruise cost with these extras. Yes, I realize this was a choice and I could have done without, but part of the fun of being on vacation is springing for those little extras. And really, $175 for a 50-minute massage? Mon dieu! $10 per mixed drink (souvenier cup included!) was a little rich for my blood,too.
  • The tipping structure. Every drink ordered automatically included a 15% gratuity. I usually added another dollar because I am a sucker. At the end of the vacation, everyone is also expected to tip the waiter, headwaiter, assistant waiter, and cabin attendant. After 3 days, I was beginning to feel like a cruise is just one big shake-down.
  • With so little to do on board, you spend a lot of time eating. And eating. And eating....
  • The day we spent at sea would have been ideal for laying out by the pool relaxing, had it not been about 40 degrees up there! Why not get in the hot tub, you ask? Well, because the two spas were both full to the brim with the same greased-up, beer-swilling people- all. day. long. They did not seem to be getting out to use the restroom, either.
  • And I think the most challenging part of the cruise for me was the not-so-luxurious accomodations. Our rooms were cramped, so there was no way to comfortably "hang out" and chat. And the bathroom was just like the ones on airplanes, only with a closet-sized shower.
I had a great time with the girls and I'm glad I tried a cruise because I've always been curious about them. I now feel like I can check off cruising on the long list of "Things to Experience in Life." But next time, I think I'll just opt for flying straight to the resort instead!

Thursday, October 2, 2008

My Cruise - Part 2

I was thinking some more about my cruise and was considering how the group's topics of conversation have evolved over the years . . .
Our first spa weekend trip to White Sulfur Springs in St. Helena was planned as a pre-wedding celebration for Susan. During that trip we were mostly unmarried twenty-somethings. We agreed that the weekend away was so refreshing and wonderful that we would make it an annual tradition. And we stuck to it! For the first few years, we talked a lot about our engagements and weddings. I even remember dragging Joanna into a bridal shop one year to try on dresses!
As the years went by, it seemed that a different lady missed the trip each year due to an advanced pregnancy. Soon-to-arrive babies became the new hot topic along with pregnancy's many interesting effects on the body with the occasional labor or birthing story thrown in. Our new piece of indispensable luggage became the "pump!"
This year's trip had a decidedly different tone. Everyone except for me has young infants and toddlers at home. This year the conversations mostly revolved around kids - raising them, their emerging personalities, discipline, fears, triumphs, and funny stories. Our worlds have become much larger and our priorities have shifted.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

My Cruise!


Last weekend I went on my first ever cruise with my Spa Weekend crew. For the past ten years, a group of girl friends has gotten together for a weekend without husbands and kids, where we do lots of talking, shopping and eating and of course the required spa treatments. Our first spa trip was to Napa valley in 1999 for Susan's bachelorette weekend. In the years since, we've gone back to Napa a few times, but have also relaxed in Carmel, Sonoma, Vacaville, and even San Diego one year! Since this year was our tenth, we had to do it in style . . .
We traveled on Royal Caribbean's "Monarch of the Seas" to Ensenada and back. This short cruise sailed on Friday night and returned on Monday morning. As always, it was great to get together and catch up.

Highlights of the cruise:
  • The massage ... mmmmmmm
  • Dancing out on the pool deck Saturday night
  • The great service
  • Bingo and Blackjack - a huge waste of money, but fun while it lasted!
  • Cracking up over the spooky towel monkey (?) left in our cabin by the cleaning staff
  • Sleeping on the top bunk again. It's been 16 years or so since the dorms!
  • But mostly, talking, catching up, laughing, and just being with old friends.

Monday, September 22, 2008

I'm also a Carousel!

Thanks Gail - this is very addicting!!




You Are a Carousel



You are young at heart and a truly playful person. No one would ever accuse you of taking life too seriously.

You are definitely in things for the fun. You find joy easily, and you are often building up anticipation for your next adventure.

In relationships, you tend to want to be babied and taken care of.

And while you may be a bit high maintenance, you are incredibly loyal.



Your life is simple and satisfying. Each day you treat yourself to something you enjoy.

You have a lot of emotional attachments, and experiences are extra vivid to you.

You tend to be nostalgic and sentimental. The past is important to you.

Comfortable around all living things, you have a special connection to animals and children.



At your best, you are whimsical, free spirited, and creative.

Even if your schemes seem a bit strange, they usually work out wonderfully.

At your worst, you are spoiled, demanding, and impossible to satisfy.

You've been known to act like a brat if you aren't getting your way!

I'm a Frappaccino

I got this quiz by following the link on Gail's blog. I am such a sucker for these kinds of things. I love quizzes, personality tests (see previous entry), and those dumb emails where you answer a bunch of questions and then forward it to all your friends. I am mildly interested in astrology too. Maybe I'm not-so-subtly trying to figure out who I am??




You Are a Frappacino



At your best, you are: fun loving, sweet, and modern



At your worst, you are: childish and over indulgent



You drink coffee when: you're craving something sweet



Your caffeine addiction level: low

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Personality Test

Today I took the Facebook version of the Myers-Briggs Personality Test. I took this test years ago - in my high school psychology class, I think. I've long since lost and forgotten the results, so I was curious to see what this popular personality test would reveal. I came out as an "ENFJ." Here is what that means:

E is for Extroversion. I am an extrovert which means I like to be with others and to talk things out rather than contemplate inside my own head. Sometimes I act before planning and thinking things out completely.

N is for Intuition. This means I am more interpretive about events than factual or detail oriented. Instead of systematically working through problems, I tend to brainstorm solutions (preferably in a group, of course).

F is for Feeling. This applies to how I approach decision-making situations. I am inclined to consider the feelings and points-of-view of others rather than the cold, hard facts when making decisions. I am a peace-maker and non-confrontational.

J is for Judging. This means that I approach my outer life with a sense of planning and forethought, and like to have things finished and decided. I am a checklist person and I don't procrastinate much.

Apparently ENFJs make good teachers. Hmmm.....

Sunday, September 14, 2008

A Fun Visit

Ashli drove out from Phoenix for a quick visit this weekend. I always enjoy my time with her so much!! Knowing that we just had a short time together, we stayed up late talking, talking, talking both Friday and Saturday night.
On Saturday, we went to breakfast at World Famous, then spent some time shopping in Pacific Beach. We followed up with pedicures, then a wonderful dinner at Sushi on the Rock in La Jolla.

Friday, September 12, 2008

Nerd Dogs

I laughed until I cried over this one. Brandy does not know how lucky she is . . .

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Thursday, September 11, 2008

Loves It!

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Wednesday, September 10, 2008

September 11

Every morning, my students and I begin the day by writing in "Freewrite Notebooks." Everyone writes on a topic of choice, and students who would like to are able to share their writing aloud. This week, one of my students shared this lovely piece she had written. I don't think she would mind my passing it on. (Keep in mind that this family was living in Boston at the time - the two planes that crashed into the twin towers originated in Boston). I've corrected the spelling and left out any proper names for confidentiality:

September 11, 2001
A sad day especially for me. My uncle had his wedding September 12, 2001, so my dad was flying out on September 11, 2001. But thank goodness the flight was full. But I just think about it every day, how my dad could be gone forever and my little brother was just born. I was 2 and I think about how thankful I am and lucky I am for him to still be with me alive. And my first friend that we met at 6 months old, her dad worked at that twin tower building but amazingly took the day off. God let us both have our fathers today and I thank him so I pray happily to God every single September 11th. I will never forget that moment in my life. It's true. Ask my dad. The End

Monday, September 8, 2008

The Revenge of Pepe

My adventures with wildlife continued on Friday morning as Brandy and I went out for out 5:00 jog.
First of all, leaving my apartment complex, we saw a coyote trotting through the parking lot. It looked young, a lot like this one in the picture:It always blows me away how fearless suburban coyotes are. This one was not exception. When it saw us, it trotted a little ways away, jumped up onto the raised flowerbed, then just turned around and stared at us. Brandy did not even see it, fortunately - the last thing I wanted was her barking and lunging at a coyote! As we trotted past, coyote kept it's eyes trained on me, sizing me up without flinching or backing away at all. What a cool animal!!
So, we made it out of the parking lot and had just turned the corner on my new, improved running route when we were once again startled by a rustle from the bushes. I screamed and jumped, but it was too late...we had been sprayed. Brandy was between me and the skunk, so she caught the brunt of it, poor girl. I swore five or six times in a row, and we turned around and trotted back home.
The smell was actually not too strong, I guess because it was just a little skunk. But I had to throw away my running pants and Brandy's leash, and Brandy needed two baths, one of them with tomato juice. We are stink-free now! I dearly hope we've fulfilled our skunk quota for the month!!

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Walking Into Spider Webs

I need to plan out a new jogging route. Mine is fraught with perils, and I do not mean uneven sidewalks!! Currently, part of my run is on Ted Williams Parkway, along a sidewalk with large trees growing on the street side. It seems that spiders live on these trees, and this year must have been a baby boom year for spiders! In the past, I’ve been jogging merrily along and have run into a strand or two of spiderweb. But in the past week, I have twice run into what felt like the web of Shelob! Oh, and I jog at 5 A.M., when it is still pitch dark outside. Anyway, these icky, unexpected encounters with Aragog’s fly-catching net of course necessitate my stopping, cursing loudly and then dancing and hopping around while I repeatedly brush off every inch of my body to make sure that a massive 8-legged beast is not crawling around in my hair. Brandy patiently watches, and I’m pretty sure she is laughing at me.

So, I thought, I will just run in the street - avoid the trees all together. I
tried that today and it’s true, I didn’t run into any spiderwebs. But running in the bike path on Ted Williams Parkway during the wee morning hours with a dog alongside and cars whizzing by at 60+ miles per hour didn’t seem exactly...safe. In fact, I was a teensy bit terrified for my life.

Just when I though I had it made, having avoided the tarantulas and death by speeding commuters, I nearly had my arm yanked off as Brandy lunged into the bushes. She does this quite regularly on my runs if she sees a little bunny or a bird. But today, I looked to see what she
was after and saw a fluffy black and white tail disappearing around the bend. Cursing again, I yanked Brandy back before she continue to pursue little Pepe. Luckily, there was no spraying and we were able to continue unscathed.

These morning jogs are meant to keep me in good health, not result in a venomous spider bite, being run over by a speeding SUV, or desecration by skunk. So, tomorrow morning before I go to work I will measure out a new 4-mile course for Friday's run - hopefully spider, traffic, and Pepe-free!!